Thanks for your reply Si. I could not agree with you more. When my life fell apart two years ago, I fell into the trap of woe, blame, victim game, and anger. But well-meaning friends cared enough to kick my ass and tell me that only I could really make the trip out of my pit to see the sun. It was a tough road, but they were right. I took steps to move on, and I am now much happier. Looking forward to reading more of your posts and I will also share more posts of mine on Medium.