Thanks for your reply Melissa! I concur with your statements. Shit can and does happen to all (I emphasise all) of us but we have those few seconds between thought and action where we can choose our actions and responses. Often we choose poorly but we also sometimes choose well too. The power to be or not to be lies in our hands. As former US president Franklin Delano Roosevelt said, (paraphrase mine) we are our own enemy. Thanks again Melissa!