I didn’t think of this approach to relationships but it makes perfect sense! Thanks for sharing this Kristin. I have also gone through periods of life (and am going through one now) when I cannot think of what I did wrong but it seemed that I was starting fires in buildings and people were fleeing for their lives! But reading your post has given me a needed perspective and one day we’ll find the right fit and the pants and top will be perfectly coordinated and completely comfortable too! Just keep searching and don’t give up Kristin. I haven’t either!